“The Game” or “The Life” is street slang for being involved in unregulated or illegal ways of making money. It includes sexual exploitation.
The Game has its own culture – the language or slang used, ways of dressing and representing oneself, how one behaves or responds, and the beliefs or values held. Pop culture tends to represent The Game as lavish and fun, attracting young people to become involved - but what you see is not always what you get.
"During the eighties, sociologists and clinicians identified the many ways in which gang culture replicated the family unit for children who found their support systems in the street. In the world of domestically trafficked girls, the same is true. The desire for a family is so strong and so overpowering for most children that it doesn't take much to create that illusion. Pimps play upon this desire by creating a pseudo-family structure of girls who are your "wives-in-law" headed up by a man you call Daddy. The lessons that girls have been taught, implicitly and explicitly, about family and relationship dynamics are all fuel for the exploiters' fire. The greater need for attention and love, the easier it is to recruit them. The more unhealthy the patterns they've learned, the less a pimp needs to break them down, the less he needs to teach them.
- Rachel Lloyd,
Girls Like Us, Pg. 56
It is important to understand some of the language and culture of the sex trade. We are not suggesting that you use this language with the youth you support, but it is helpful to know the terms so you don’t interrupt a young person to ask what a word means if they’re sharing an experience.
If a young person is using this language, it might indicate they are familiar with The Game and are being sexually exploited. However, they might simply be using the language they hear on the street or in pop culture. Consider the youth’s language as an indicator, not as proof that they are being sexually exploited.
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While pop culture may lead young people to believe that the sex trade is glamourous, the realities are very different. Youth who are exploited in the sex trade:
The impacts of sexual exploitation can be deep and complex, both short- and long-term. Shame might be the hardest impact to overcome. Feelings of shame, humiliation, or embarrassment can prevent a young person from reaching out for help and receiving support. Being shamed by society revictimizes the young person at every turn.
As a support person, you can help to break the cycle of shame by understanding the factors that led to the sexual exploitation and by focusing on the young person’s strengths.
There have been recent developments in the regulation and response to online child sexual abuse images*, including technology to help remove CSAM images from the internet. To learn more, click here.
To report online child sexual abuse images, click here.
*often referred to as child pornography