As support people, professional helpers and activists, many of us set high bars for ourselves and others. It is also important to be gentle with yourself, and others, when it comes to practicing self-care.
Creating a circle of care is listening to the needs of, and caring for, each other. It shifts the responsibility of care from the individual and centres the importance of caring for each other in community.
It means checking in with each other, asking what people need and respecting their answers, and creating spaces where we can heal collectively.
Some people are born into communities, with long-standing traditions, cultural practices and ceremonies. See Indigenous Perspectives for examples.
Many find community and support through their place of worship.
Some groups - such as people with disabilities, LGBTQIA2S+ people, people of colour, victims/survivors of sexual violence - find or create community. These communities, too, have rich histories, elders/forebearers, knowledge, and resources that may aid in your wellbeing.
Some examples of a circle of care include:
When caring for each other, it is also important to maintain your own boundaries.
Many of these things are necessary accommodations for people living with disabilities. This includes disabilities that you may not know about and/or that are are invisible, including chronic illness and pain; depression, anxiety and other challenges with mental health; neurodiverse people; and people with environmental illnesses.
People with disabilities, and disability justice activists, have and continue to lead the way in terms of circles of care.
Engaging in community healing, advocacy, and/or social justice activism can also allow support people to act on their deeply held values as well as counter feelings of frustration, anger, powerlessness, and vicarious trauma.
Collective action and social movement building offer learning, growth and meaning-making that can build resilience, hope and belonging.
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